To me, the the deepest spirituality, the deepest practice, is to love one special other with all your heart, with total devotion and surrender. When your beloved loves you to the same depth and 100% commitment, both will be healed of all human injuries and distortions, and enter an area of divine grace such that you Will know God as your own Self, and later, there is more even beyond God.

I had this experience once with a woman who then ran away saying the love was too intense, that she could not match or sustain it. It is extremely rare to find two who want to go all the way together. In a way, it means giving up everything of you, and giving everything to your beloved. Complete submission.